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Job Applicants: A Small Business Owner’s Perspective
Monique Danielle
May 19, 2005
Job Applicants: A Small Business Owner’s Perspective
Recently DivaDesignWorld hired a new marketing
assistant.In the process, we received
resumes from many hopeful applicants.From the pool of 50 or so applicants we interviewed a total of 4
people.Today I want to discuss how
important it is for employees to look at the hiring process from an employer’s
perspective.Below are Do’s when trying
to find employment with a small business. After each do is a note regarding my
thought process in hiring our most recent employee.
DO – Follow directions specified in job ads. For example our
online ad stated that we wanted a personalized cover letter, resume,
references, and salary requirements. Furthermore we clearly stated that all
applications should be sent to our physical address – no emails and no phone
calls.Fewer than 15% of applicants
followed these instructions. A great deal of them tried to email their resume
when we specifically stated that a paper application was required.
Those who failed to follow instructions communicated one
thing to me – “I’m too lazy to mail my application, and I don’t follow
directions.” None of these people were interviewed.
DO – Present your cover letter and resume in a professional
fashion. This means that you should use high quality paper, not the cheap stuff
sitting in your printer tray. Your resume should be well organized, AND it
should be tailored to the job in question. The more you customize your resume,
the better your chances for an interview.Rather than folding your resume and sticking it in a small envelope, use
a high quality flat envelope.If you’re
looking to really stand out, send your resume via UPS or FedEx.
For the marketing position I was bombarded with a pile of
resumes. Naturally I was drawn to those applications that conveyed
professionalism and effort. None of the sloppy or plain applications had a
chance. Perhaps if DivaDesignWorld were an accounting firm, plain white paper
would have sufficed. However, we are a marketing communications company. Any qualified
applicant should know that a marketing company values presentation and image.
Lesson: Know your audience.
DO – Replace cheesy, juvenile, cheeky messages on your
answering machine with clear, articulate, professional messages. And, when you
are home to answer the phone, be sure to answer professionally.If you normally answer your phone with, “Yo,
this is Mary,” you had better change your ways – fast!For the period during your job search you
should answer the phone, “Hello, Mary Speaking.”Nothing is a bigger turn off then calling a prospective employee
and getting a cheeky answering machine, or rude initial welcome.
I received an application from someone who appeared to be
very qualified. However, when I called her I was greeted with a harsh,
unfriendly, unrefined, “Yeah, this is Mary”.I pressed on, “Hello Mary, this is Monique with DivaDesignWorld, I’m
calling in regard to the application that you submitted”. Her response was a
gruff, “Yeah”.I wanted to hang up
right there. But, being the polite person that I am, I spoke with her for a few
minutes. Wow, what a painful conversation. This woman wanted the job, but she
made Roseanne Bar look refined!The
woman we eventually hired is gracious, eloquent, friendly and professional in
our initial phone conversation.
DO -Arrive at your
interview 5 minutes early. You should look and smell like a professional. No
tight clothes. No low-cut blouses. No perfume. No smoke smell on your body. No
overly trendy clothes. No body piercing. No strangely colored hair. No sexy
clothes. No jeans. No tank tops. No shorts. No body odor. No bad breathe. No
excessively large or overly hair sprayed hair.
One woman we hired showed up with so much makeup that she
literally resembled one of those porcelain masks.This did not make a good first impression. She cemented the
negative impression when she boasted that she had an excellent eye for cute
clothes. What the heck?We are a
marketing communication firm, not a clothing boutique.This woman should have found something more
compelling to discuss than the latest runway styles.
DO – Research the prospective employer ahead of time, and
arrive at the interview prepared to ask meaningful questions.Your first questions should NOT be, “What
are the hours? Pay? Etc? When a prospective employer invites you to ask
questions you should ask questions that demonstrate your desire to understand
the corporation, ensure that you are a good fit, and your intentions to
contribute to the company’s success.
The woman we hired asked excellent questions. Her questions
made it clear to my partner and I that she was not desperate for a job. She was
not going to work somewhere that she did not fit. Rather, she was looking for a
company whose culture and needs were in sync with her skills and work style.
Furthermore, the depth of her questions demonstrated a clear understanding of
business, as well as an ability to ‘think on her feet’.
DO – Exit with grace.When you leave the interview room be sure to stand up, smile, look the
interviewer straight in the eye, shake their hand, thank them for the
opportunity, and reiterate that you are excited about the possibility of
joining the team.
Of the 12 people that I have interviewed this past year only
three of them followed this advice. The rest just sort of stood up and
scampered out the door. What a turn off!! I was really impressed with one young
woman, but when she exited in this manner her chances for the job exited with
her.
DO – Answer questions honestly. For example, when asked,
“What is your greatest weakness?” don’t answer with, “I work too hard”.
I was very impressed with the women we hired, who was quite
blunt about her weakness. She said, “I am eager to please and want to make a
difference. I want to take the ball and run. Sometimes this gets me in trouble
because people sometimes mistake this for pushiness. I’ve had people get upset
and think that I’m trying to take over.”If I was looking for a data entry clerk, this statement would have cost
her the job. But, then, she wouldn’t be happy as a data entry clerk.I was looking for a marketing assistant who
can make things happen. Her answer told me four things: 1) This woman is
ambitious, 2) This woman is honest, 3) This woman reads people well. [I’m blunt
and she knew that she also needed to be blunt], and 4) In managing this woman I will need to give her autonomy and
ownership while clearly setting employee/employer relationship guidelines.
DO -Follow-up.Immediately following the interview, hand
write a thank you note, and send it – THAT SAME DAY!An email thank you is note good enough. You must take the time to
hand write and send a real thank you note.
Of the 12 people that I have interviewed this past year one
sent a hand written thank you note, three sent a thank you email, and the rest
did nothing. That is pathetic!You
should send thank you notes after EVERY job interview.
DO – Treat all email correspondence with care.Many people think that with email it’s OK to
abandon formal conventions. This is a bad idea! If you were hiring someone,
which applicant would you be more impressed with applicant ‘A’ or applicant ‘B’
Applicant A:
Here are the references you asked for:
John Smith – 555 555 5555
Jane Smith – 555 555 5555
Sally
Applicant B:
Dear Monique,
Thank you for your interest in having me join the
DivaDesignWorld team.Per our
conversation, I am sending two employment references.
John Smith, Owner of Acme Building
PH: 555 555 5555
Jane Smith, Marketing Manager at Widgets Galore
PH: 555 555 5555
If there is anything else that I can do to facilitate the
hiring process, please let me know.
Cheers,
Sally Jones
12345 Main Street
Portland, Oregon 97225
(503) 555 5555
Email:
DO – look for jobs that are the ‘right fit’.Employers are always looking for employees who
fit the job, fit the company culture, and fit the needs of the hiring
manager.You should be cognizant of
this. In an interview your job is to demonstrate how you are the best fit for
the job. You will demonstrate this through everything that you do. Your resume,
your phone manners, your attire, your grooming, your linguistic choices, your
voice, your questions, your listening skills, your demeanor, and your follow-up
actions.
In interviewing applicants I am far more impressed by people
who ask thought provoking, meaningful questions, than I am with people who
chatter on about all of their accomplishments. Of course a truly savvy
applicant will work in their accomplishments throughout the course of a
conversation while at the same time asking thoughtful questions.
'Dating' for Married Women
Dot
May 18, 2005
Having recently moved to a new state and working in a
fairly solitary job, I don't have any friends.I'm not going to sugar coat it, it's the truth. So, I found myself in an interesting position
when my husband had to cancel our Star Wars movie date.We bought the tickets several weeks ago
online because we didn't want to wait in line and risk a sellout. Then he found out his schedule was changing
and he would be working that night.
Great!Now I have
three options; don't go, go alone or go with the wife of one of his
coworkers.I don't want to waste the
money and I don't want to go by myself so I have to call her.The problem is I felt like an idiot because
I've only met her once and I didn't want her to say no. It feels like dating.It's a good thing she doesn't have any
friends either because she wasn't exactly in a position to say no.I mean, what was she going to say?I can't go because I have to wash my
hair?Not likely, she's too
nice.
So I
called her and she said yes and now I have a date for Friday night.We'll see how it goes.
The Apprentice & Emotional Intelligence
Maya
May 16, 2005
I am a big fan of the serial Apprentice.It is heartening to see that this time there
are two females vying for the top job. Go girls, though I am rooting for Kendra
to get the job. She seems to be more of a genuine person. This brings to an interesting
point that if a woman is overly ambitious and aggressive which Tana appears to
be she is not considered as a nice person. (That’s what Martha Stewart
complained about but that’s a whole different story altogether. Let us not go
there). Tana seems to be ‘not stop at anything’ kind. She seems to be
manipulative and lacking people skills. This to my mind is a classic
demonstration of the IQ and the EQ debate.Emotional Intelligence more popularly known as EQ in brief encompasses
five characteristics and abilities, self-awareness,
mood management, self motivation, empathy and managing relationships.
As Daniel Goleman a journalistwho made
the term EQ popular by publishing a book titled Emotional Intelligence in
1995 says in his book “Even the most academically brilliant among us are
vulnerable to being undone by unruly emotions”. All the applicants chosen on
the show obviously must possess high level of IQ. They are supposed to be the
best and the brightest out of tens and thousands of applicants. So every time a
candidate is fired it’s not because they lack intelligence in traditional sense
but because of their deficiency in EQ skills.
I am also interested in the way the ‘street smart’ versus
the ‘book smart’ plays out. The two teams on the show were divided according to
the level of education they had with obviously the street smarts having no
college degree and book smarts possessing a college level education. Tana
belongs to the former and Kendra to the later. Though we have the world’s
richest person, Bill Gates, a college dropout I think it requires a highly
exceptional IQ as well as EQ level to turn out to be that successful with
limited education. And one definitely has not heard that because he or she got
an education he or she did not come out top in their field! The fact that
Apprentice has become such a hit is because it blends the human and the
professional factors very well. And of course there is Donald Trump the master
showman. I like the way he blatantly avers anything associated with him or the
serial as the worlds greatest or the best. I think that adds to his overall
larger than life personality. So stay tuned for the finale airing next week…
Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate,but that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant,gorgeous, handsome, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.
It is not just in some; it is in everyone.
And, as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
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FYI
- Many people attribute this poem to Nelson Mandela. While he spoke the
words, the true creator of the speech was Marianne Wiliamson
Stress & Belly Fat
Monique Danielle
May 13, 2005
Lately I've been reading about the relationship between stress and the fat that accumlates around your belly.
Chronic stress leads to more fat, particularly around the belly.
Chronically high stress leads to chronically high cortisol levels, which kills neurons in the brain and interferes with 'feel good' substances like dopamine.
To lose weight around the abdominal area requires more than diet and exercise. It also requires an 'anti-stress' diet of medication, yoga, adequate sleep, and sometimes lifestyle changes.
Postmenopausal women have significantly greater blood pressure reactivity than men or premenopausal women when under mental stress.
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